Stop dating losers
If you’re young (college or just out of college), girls do not have high expectations. Since girls do not have high expectations when you’re 18-22 years old, do not try to use money to get girls. They are more concerned with you being a cool and attractive person. If you are making ~0K out of college as an investment banker, you’re going to have a slight edge over your competition. When you start making ~0K at age 26-28 you are now in the top ~10% in major cities and life will get significantly easier. Even if you’re still trying to date younger girls they *expect* you to have some income.When you are young, girls care much less about how much money you make. Living at home in your parents basement is simply not going to cut it.You can use money to elevate your relative status (owning expensive assets).Please take a look at the graph below and you’ll understand why you should work hard in your 20s.If you want to consistently compete at this level you need to generate The range gets much wider depending on who you are. Extremely attractive women have a ton of options so they will not date men who are “average”.Anyone who believes otherwise is simply full of it.This means you need to It becomes much more complicated at these levels.
Girls in the 8 Range: Competition is heating up aggressively. They are approached all of the time and will raise their standards yet again.This means the girl knows she’s relatively attractive and she will raise her expectations.You need to be in decent shape, have decent social skills and not be socially awkward.If you can spend 3x the median income in your city and are not able to meet women, this is a clear sign that 1) looks, 2) social skills or 3) status needs to be raised immediately. There is a massive positively biased skew to life and over 80% of people will fall below the average. Knowing that ~80% of people are going to fall below average you know that the girls are going to flock to the top 20%.This is shown on numerous college campus studies where 1/5 of the men receive the majority of the sex ( join a college sports team if you can! This ratio doesn’t change as you get older and likely gets worse!